Stability

In general, humans reek stability. They want to be stable. They tend to hate fights. I'm not talking about psychopaths here. I'm talking about us. You and me. Of course, a little bit of twist in life would add some colors to life, making it less boring. But stability, as in feeling secure, knowing you have freedom of expression, access to food and clean water, very basic human rights like that. I'm quite sure that you do want this, don't you?

Let's set up a situation. A hypothetical situation (I love that word 'hypothetical'). Have you encountered a friend who's nice to you. He's a good friend. He's always there when you need someone. He shares the same interests with you. He's ready to help you most of the time. But... let's say he's done all that for you just to use you.

Well, indeed you don't have to do much for him. You just have to support him. You say 'well okay, it's easy. I will support him of course, just like how he's supported me'. You'll say 'that's not using! that's just how friendship works'

Apparently this very good friend doesn't share the same interest with you at all. He just pretends all the time. This is a whole deception on friendship, to just creating some sort of mass support from the circle of friends you guys both share.

One day, he puts you as a bait, when he realizes he doesn't need you anymore. He contrives some horrible untruthful story about you being a backstabber (sorry to make it sounds so girly, backstabber, but that's the first thing that comes up. promise, i won't be talking about bitch fight next). He does that because he's realized that he's had enough of your support.

How will you respond to this kind of situation? Will you be 'alrighty, he's been so nice so far. it's okay if he doesn't need me anymore'. Or... 'He's such a dickhead'

What if this friend is the so called 'stability' I mentioned previously. What if the basic human rights have been provided is not purely intended because we need them. But one day, we're going to be shaken by some biggest deceptions we can never prove.

I know this raises many questions like 'what deception, and for what, and who deceives who' but.. yea... I'm just thinking and suddenly this thing sprang up to my mind.

What if we need more than basic human rights. What if we need some pure intention behind all that.

Am I making sense? Or this comes out to be some incoherent rants like my other previous posts so far?